Ensure internet safety for kids

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The Internet has become the most popular medium of communication, information, and entertainment in the world. Not only adults but kids are also tempted to stay online for hours whether required or not. With the easy approach to smartphones and tablets, internet access has become easier. Though it has served several purposes yet its perennial presence is posing serious threats to the children who are largely unaware of the harmful consequences of the internet. Therefore, ensure internet safety for kids!

Help your elder child to welcome the sibling

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The arrival of a new baby in the house is a matter of happiness and joy. Along with that come to some adjustments and arrangements that need to be done prior to and after the arrival of the baby. However, it takes a lot of adjustment and understanding on the part of the elder child to share his or her parents with the younger ones. It is not at all an easy thing to accept. If not taken care of on time, this may lead to sibling rivalry.

Common concerns of Parents related to sibling issues

Lack of adjustment among siblings
Constant fights between them
Bullying each other
Power tussle
Hiding facts and lying about each other
Not able to care or appreciate each other
Expecting favoritism or more attention from parents
Not sharing things with each other
A sense of competition leading to sibling rivalry

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However, with proper care and guidance from the parents and other family members, this kind of stress of an elder child can be eased and he or she can be set in the mood to welcome the baby with full enthusiasm. The parents need to take the initiative as early as the news of pregnancy is discovered. And they should consider it as a crucial aspect to motivate and prepare their elder son or daughter for the arrival of his or her sibling.

                                       

Teach your first child to welcome his sibling with love

Steps to help your child to welcome the sibling and promote sibling love

What all can be done to educate and inspire your child to accept his or sibling with pleasure has been summed up below:

The first thing you can do is tell your child is that he or she is a special gift you have received from God. Further, you can add that as a baby he or she was very tiny and not capable enough to do things that he or she can do now. The exercise will make your child sensitive towards babies and curious as well.

Secondly, you can show him or her babies in the family and neighborhood and explain to him or her that a baby is totally helpless and dependent on his parents and an elder sibling for everything.

Now you can disclose to him or her about the arrival of the younger brother or sister in the house. And go on telling him that previously he was the smallest now there will be someone who would be smaller to him and dependent on him for all his needs. All this will help in developing an emotional bond between the elder child and the baby even before the latter arrives.

Educate your child that God will send the baby to the hospital and that mama will have to stay there for a while. Since the elder child may not have seen phases of separation from the mother for a few days, it is required to mentally prepare him in advance for the delivery time.

“The gift” sent is meant for the elder child and his parents will take care of the gift as he or she will be too small to do anything.

Include the child in preparations like buying clothes and accessories. This will create an interest in him and make him feel that he is very important to his parents.

Ask the child to choose a nickname for the baby as he is going to be the elder brother of the new baby.

After the arrival of the baby, make your elder child do small things like selecting the clothes or handing over the diaper for the baby.

                                               

Meanwhile, you can seek the help of your spouse and other family members to give proper time to your child in your absence.

Make sure you buy gifts for the elder one along with the baby whenever you go out shopping. You can take your family in confidence that while shopping for the baby, remember to bring something for the elder child also.

Another important point to implement is to take out exclusive time for your elder child and listen to his feelings and likes or dislikes. A nice hug or kiss and some special moments will assure him that he is still an inseparable aspect of your life.

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Things to Remember to promote sibling love

1. Your desire to develop sibling love may differ from the reality of sibling rivalry, so be prepared.
2. Understand the siblings are still young and will learn gradually.
3. They have different personalities and outlooks, appreciate the difference.
4. Avoid comparisons and competition between the kids.
5. Instead of forcing cooperation among them, advise them with patience.
6. Taking sides on the basis of gender or the order of birth may develop resentment.
7. Check the demand of the situation whenever conflict arises, and settle the issue as per the requirement of the issue.
8. Avoid favoring one child over the other, this may aggravate the rivalry

Importance of Creating Aliveness while Parenting

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Hello everyone, 

Lately, I have been working on the possibility of creating aliveness in everyday life. In younger times, we engaged in creativity, laugh, tease, play, dance and act in many more ways that created a lively atmosphere in our life. However, as we grow older, responsibility, accountability, tight schedules, etc., etc., take over our once lively persona. 

                                                                    

Is the absence of aliveness bad?

It is though it is not apparent to us. The absence of aliveness deprives us of the element of feeling enthusiasm and hope at times. Emotions of stress, pain, self-doubt, fear, resignation, and indifference take over our everyday existence. That translates into our family atmosphere as well. We exist, work, sleep and perform tasks necessary for survival. However, that is not the reason we are blessed with the life of a human.

Absence of aliveness in our own being manifests in relationships; especially affects our kids. Carrying the emotional baggage of past erodes the aliveness and happiness of today. You cease to exist in present or count your blessings. Again, the same vibes surround your family and kids.

What is ALIVENESS?

                               

Being in the moment is being alive!

Alive means having a life, not dead. Going as per Dictionary. com, here is a clear meaning of what does it mean by 'alive'?

                                           

                               

   So, being alive is not only being in existence, it refers to a state of being active, being exuberant, vibrant and full of energy. That comes when one is fully immersed in the present and available for what is happening right now. Such existence does not have the shadow of past or fear of the future, only being present to the ongoing moment.

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What is the Importance of Creating Aliveness while Parenting?

As a human when you feel alive, vibrant and full of energy, it generates in the whole environment. The people surrounding you like your spouse, parents or children receive the same energy and respond with equal zest.

Situation 1- Response coming from your past culminating into anger towards kids.

Imagine a situation, wherein you are exhausted and loaded with official work. You enter your home with this mind frame when you kid hugs you. However, since being not available in present, as your mind is still stressed out, you respond with anger/ frustration. The result is the family atmosphere gets disturbed and your kids drift away from you.

                                           

Situation 2: Creating aliveness while parenting

On the other hand, while feeling alive and being in the present, you can respond to the same situation calmly, thereby retaining pleasantness. Consequently, the kids will connect with you freely and you will be able to enjoy a happy environment after a hectic day.

Here are highlights of Creating Aliveness while Parenting:

1. Being available here and now as a person

2. Past baggage kept aside

3. Responding to the present situation 

            

4. Inspiring the environment to experience present

5. Ensure many happy moments for family

6. Connecting with kids at an elevated level

7. Ensuring the vibrant persona of kids

8. Teaching the kids to be alive at any given moment

9. Happy and optimistic family

We will discover more on Aliveness on next blog post, let me know your views and feedback on what I shared today. Let me know how you felt when you practiced aliveness while raising kids.

Thanks for reading my post, have a good day!

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Create a beautiful bond with your child with easy parenting tips.

Parent and child relationship is the most beautiful of all relations. In bringing up the child, you would often behave like one and enjoy many moments with your kid. However, as time passes by, the equation between you and your child may change and you may experience a gap. Sometimes, kids stop responding in a respectful way or worse they simply stop caring for what you say. 

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You miss those days when you were the best friend of your adorable child and she would share everything with you. However, as she grows up, she does not want your involvement in her life. In fact, she considers it as interference. With such twists in relationships, you may feel alone and helpless. You may be wondering about the reasons and the ways to mend things. 

The equations have changed but everything is not finished yet.

 It is not difficult to maintain a healthy relationship with kids. There can be many difficult phases in the journey of parenting but some rules always succeed to retain the special bond between you and your child.

 Here are some golden parenting tips which would help you to stay close to your children:

 1. Hugs and kisses never fail to warm the hearts. 

                                        

Cuddle your kids when you return from your office or when they return from school. It makes them feel special and wanted. If your child is sick or if she has performed well in something, a loving hug says everything how important she is for you.

Children want attention. In the absence of adequate attention from parents, they slowly drift away and engage themselves in their own world. Do not let that happen. Keep them close to your heart and remind them of your unconditional love through hugs and kisses.

Engage with your kids in activities they love.

 2. Spend quality time with your kids. 

Join her in her favorite activity like drawing or dancing or reading and have fun with her. It would help her to open up and share her feelings with you. For some time, forget you are an adult and simply act like a friend of hers.

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 You may also organize a picnic and take your child to the nearby park, beach or zoo. She will always remember the beautiful moments spent with you. If going out is not possible then watch some good kids' movie together while eating popcorn. Reading books together is again a good way to develop bonding between you and your kid.

 3. Encourage your kid in her endeavors and let her make mistakes. 

Avoid being picky and do not try to control her actions now and then. Your forgiving attitude would help to bring your child closer to you. Remember, your child needs your open-minded support at every step and she is going to adore you for that. Your whole-hearted appreciation in her small efforts will make her successful in big tasks. Ignore small mistakes and appreciate the genuine efforts made by children.

 4. While being firm is important, using offensive language is not required. 
                                                           

Set an example of behavior you expect from your kid.

Try to behave and speak in the manner you would expect your child to assume. Children often pick words and actions from the behavior of their parents. Therefore, if you really want your child to be courteous with you then set an example first.

 You may donate some of your old clothes and things and encourage your child to do the same. This would help the child to develop compassion and respect for other humans. Chivalry and compassion displayed by you at home or outside would instill good values in your kids.

 5. Children love surprises and gifts. 

Occasionally, gift your child her favorite games, snacks or books. These need not be related to her academic achievements. Unexpected presents evoke a sense of appreciation and affection. 
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The gifts may be small and economical but the impact on the kids is priceless. Alternatively, a surprise outing or sleepovers with their friends are more than welcome and goes a long way in enduring your relation with your growing kids.

 These parenting tips would surely bring you and your child closer and strengthen the special bond between both of you. So, try them and let me know about your experiences.

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Magic of a hug

Nothing compares to a hug from a parent to his kid.

Hugging has magical powers. You don't believe this. If you don't then for once go ahead and give a tight hug to your kid and feel the difference. You cannot express that in words but you will feel what a HUG can do to you and to your child.

Many of us do not give value to hugging. In fact, in some cultures, hugging kids often is considered a way to pamper him/ her and spoil the child in the long run. However, it is not so. On the contrary, hugging has several health benefits. It has magical benefits for both parties.

Hugging is important for child development.

Babies feel emotionally secure and loved when they are close to the body of their parents. Complete child development includes mental growth too. Kids who are deprived of touch and affection are likely to be emotionally weak in comparison to kids who are loved and hugged often.

Hug generates positive vibes.

Hugs from close family members create a positive environment.

 When you hug your child, he is filled with love, laughter, affection, confidence, and positivism. It applies to you too! Hug generates positive emotions in the related brain cells and creates an optimistic atmosphere around the people.   
                                          

A hug means acceptance.

When you hug someone you mean that you are embracing him/ her despite his flaws, mistakes, or weaknesses. Kids need such assurance that though they fail to match your high expectations, they are still loved. When you give a hug to your disobedient son/ daughter, you mean that you may not like his/ her behavior but you still love him/ her like before. Forgive and forget your child's mistake with a hug.

Hug a day keeps the stress away.

Embrace your loved ones to feel alive and stress-free.

A hug is a gateway to happiness and optimism. It instantly reduces the stress of children as well as yours. Go ahead and give a nice hug to your children.

Hug has medicinal properties.

 Yes, of course. Give a hug when your child is ill, in pain or sad, and see the positive change in his health. When you connect to him via a hug, he gets charged up, energized, and relaxed.

Strengthen your bond with your kids through hugging.

If you want to fill the gap between your kids then take a step and embrace them now. Hugging strengthens the bond and makes a relationship more beautiful and worthy.

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A TRIBUTE TO FATHERHOOD

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All these years we have connected child-raising with motherhood. We have experienced and discussed the feelings, woes, and tribulations of a mother. Being a mother, my focus has been on the relationship between a mother and her child. And I would say it is a big mistake that I did not discuss the role of the father in parenting issues. It is not as if I do not acknowledge the role of the father. I am largely my papa's daughter and I really look forward to his words and advice for anything and everything. His constant support and understanding have always kept me going.

                                                    

Parenting is incomplete without a father's love.

Maybe, it has become a tendency to overlook the participation of fathers in child-raising. Father has always been there to give support and love. The only thing is his ways and his participation is different from that of a mother. I remember my mother was scared of sending me to school via bicycle. However, my father instilled confidence in me and I started going to school on a bicycle instead of the school bus. It is a father's vision and strength that helps develop confidence in his child.

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As a mother, now, I may speak out my side of the story, about my efforts, troubles, and accomplishments. And it is true; mothers are more vocal about their life, their efforts, and hardships. But in no way, it can take away the efforts, the silent support, and affection of a father for the kids. His wise words and strong hands are always there to show the right way to kids.

While raising our two adorable kids, so many times my husband showed the way, boosted the confidence of the children, and helped to overcome several milestones. His presence and keenness to connect with the family in every possible way have created a lively atmosphere at home.                                                              

                     

If you also feel the same as me and understand the need to acknowledge fatherhood, then it is time to become vocal about their contribution to bringing up the kids. Call your dad to acknowledge him and encourage your kids too to acknowledge their father as well.

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How to keep kids busy in vacations

Vacations are the most awaited and cherished time of the year for kids. As soon as the vacations are declared, one can see beaming faces coming out of the school. From that moment, the kids look forward to lots of fun, leisure and relief from studies.

It is a well deserving break for kids. However, the parents are often in a dilemma about what their kids can do in such a long period. The purpose is to make the holidays enjoyable, refreshing and yet educational for kids.

In long vacations, the timetable of the children goes upside down. It used to be early to bed and early to rise. However, in holidays, it becomes late to bed and late they shall rise. Gradually the excitement of kids fades because of idleness and they become troublesome and cranky. The extreme weather makes them stay indoors. In addition, there are limited options of activities and enjoyment at home.

Nevertheless, some homework and planning on part of parents can make things much better. The parents can discuss the interests and likes/ dislikes of children. Then accordingly, they can formulate a timetable that is acceptable to all. The following activities will be interesting for kids during their vacations:

Exercise and sports:

The kids will enjoy exercising, cycling and playing team sports like cricket and football with their friends. That ways their mornings and evenings will not remain idle and they will also follow a healthy daily routine.

School activities:

Schools organize various activities and programs in vacations. These would be of interest for children as they get to enjoy their favorite activities along with their school friends.

Summer camp:

During holidays, various summer camps are conducted for children, which are full of fun and creative as well. Activities like art and craft, handwriting improvement, dance classes, music and cooking are the most sought after. On the other hand, some kids prefer swimming, taekwondo, football, skating and similar activities.

Outdoor camps:

Older kids and teens may go for outdoor camps that include camping on hills, trekking, river rafting and many other such adventurous activities. This gives a different kind of exposure and confidence to kids.

Indoor activities:

At home, the parents can provide interactive workbooks for fun and educational purposes of kids. They can buy storybooks and interesting activity books especially for use in vacations. All these are also available online.

Other options:

Vacations are the time when bonding between the parents and kids can become stronger. Both of them can play board games, enjoy watching kids’ movies together, decorate house with self-made craft items and finish household chores together. Picnics are a great way to get a break. Even better is the idea of a family trip to a new place where everyone can enjoy.

Implement these fun ideas today and enjoy vacations with kids whole-heartedly.

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Having fun with kids- Benefits and Ideas

Parents are so engrossed in carrying out their responsibilities that they often forget the importance of having fun with kids. The duties and deadlines are part and parcel of life. But the childhood of the kids is for a short period. After that, the kids get busier with their studies, friends, and other activities. The parents and child interaction time also reduces as the child grows older.

                                           

Get ideas to have fun with kids in between your work!

   

Besides taking care of kids, we parents need to learn to have fun with our kids. It will make the childhood memories of the kids special and moreover, the bonding will strengthen.

Benefits of Having Fun with Kids

While having enjoyment time with children, it refreshes our memories of our own childhood. The joys and fun of that time get revived with simple fun activities carried out by parents along with their kids. Having fun together helps in numerous ways:

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It reduces the stress levels of parents and helps them enjoy simple things in life.

Fun time brings parents and kids closer and eases tensions between them.

Through fun moments, parents can joyfully teach valuable lessons of life.

Sharing memories and moments with parents makes childhood a pleasurable experience for kids.

By way of fun time, the parents learn the importance of having fun breaks in between their tight schedules.

Fun time provides a dose of enthusiasm and energy to kids as well as their parents.

Therefore, we need to take out some quality time for kids on a regular basis and have lots of fun.

Now what can be done in short intervals of fun time? Let’s find out here and put these into practice from today itself:

Fantastic Ideas for Fun with Kids

                             

1. Children like to copy their mothers and wish to help her in the kitchen. Why not? Select a simple and funny recipe and let your children cook with you! They would surely enjoy their task and that too without considering it as a task.

2. Involve yourself in art activities with kids.

                                           

Accompany your child in arts and crafts and let the time fly by.

You don’t have to be an artist. Just join them and start coloring with them and see how their enthusiasm levels shoot up. It may remind you of your childhood as well.


3. If weather permits, have a picnic in the nearby garden or go for outdoor sports with your kids. You can opt for the game you used to play as a kid and see how your stress vanishes in the air.


4. Playing dough is a good idea as it helps kids unlock their creativity. Motivate them and join them in making different shapes and figures out of dough. The smile on the face of your kids is more important than anything else.

5. Read out the story to your kids and use a different voice for each character. The kids will definitely enjoy your participation and effort. Besides, you will have a million-dollar time when you see the big smiling faces of your kids while having fun with kids!

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6. Once in a while, you can enjoy playing video games with kids. All kids love these games and if you are going to join them then the excitement level will surely soar high.

                                                       

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7. Gardening is yet another activity that kids may enjoy. While watering plants, you can surprise your kids by splashing some water on them and having some pure fun!

8. Arrange a play date with a family friend and let the kids play with their age group. Meanwhile, adults can also play some games of their choice. It would be even better if both kids and adults play together and enjoy games like tug of war or any ball game.

                               

These intervals of fun time are vital to keep life interesting and exciting. It is better sometimes not to bother about the mess and indulge in real fun with kids. And do not miss to click on those memorable moments with kids!

9. Watching Kids' Movies Together is a great way to laugh and enjoy together without stepping out of home. Avoid the extreme temperatures with some movie showtime and hot popcorn beside you!

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Safety concerns for kids

Children are soft targets to many unwanted situations and risks. At home, school, malls, parks, etc the children are exposed to a variety of safety risks. In absence of adequate safety measures and education, they are unable to protect themselves from these hazards.

Crimes like abduction, murder, sexual abuse, trafficking are at all-time high. With wrong intentions anti social elements pick small kids and teenagers leaving behind parents and family to suffer for whole life. Sometimes the kidnapped child is traced on time and returned to the family but sometimes the child is never found. Such cases of abuse and murder later on are increasing. Most of the times, these risks can be avoided and safety of the child can be ensured if adequate precaution and measures are taken.

Parents should be observant and educated about the safety measures so that their kid is secure at all times and at any place. They can also teach their kids the ways in which the latter can act prudently in an unfavorable situation.

Safety Guidelines for parents

The parents should be aware about the daily schedule of the child and changes if any.

They should know the names, addresses and contact numbers of the friends of the child.
They should get in touch with neighbors and obtain their contact numbers and stay connected.

Before choosing a baby sitter, verify her whereabouts and credentials. Go for the one who has been recommended by your friends and relatives. Also take feedback of the child about her experience with the baby sitter.

Always accompany the younger kids in the malls, parks, streets or any other crowded areas. Do not leave them alone.

Make sure the child carries his identity card while going to school and all his belongings are properly named along with contact numbers.

Parents should create a friendly atmosphere where kids and teenagers can share their feeling and experiences freely and can feel secured and safe.

Safety tips that parents can teach to their children

As soon as the child is able to understand, he or she should be taught his name and then his address, parent's names and contact number. He should be able to use the phone in case of emergency.

Always visit only those friends and neighbors who are approved by parents.

The child should be taught to take permission before leaving the house and tell about the place of visit.

He or she should go along with an adult or friend before going to nearby market or going to school or any other place.

The child should be educated about the course of action in case he gets lost in a mall or any other place.

If a tween or teen is pressurized to have drug or alcohol then he should be able to refuse it.

Also the child should be given proper guidance for the situation where any stranger approaches him for directions or lure him or touch him or compel him to eat something. It can be dangerous.

A child should be encouraged to use tried and tested bus routes and roads to reach their destination.

These basic safety tips can prevent many unforeseen and undesirable situations and keep the children protected.

Prepare your child for the real world

Let us do a reality check. Our children are surrounded by all sorts of entertainment. Gadgets, television, movies, malls, the internet, iPods, fancy toys, and so many other things take them away from the real world. Throughout their school life, the children demand and get things done for them. They are living in some kind of dreamland with a golden spoon in their mouths. 

Prepare kids for the real world!

After that, they are suddenly introduced to the world which is new for them. There are thousands of children on the streets who either beg for their next meal or are forced to work when they should be playing while our kids either spill or leave their plates half-finished. The latter ones hardly need to stand in queues or travel in public transport or walk. They have the latest models of cars and wish for private aircraft. Trains and buses are so outdated stuff! 

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We brought up our children with so much protection and luxury that they don't know what does hardship means. However, out there is a selfish and biased world that is unkind to the novice entrants. Survival of the fittest is the rule and means to stay ahead. Everybody is pushed into a never-ending race, a neck-to-neck competition, and a perpetual struggle of ego and power. 

Now consider another aspect. The front-page headline reads that a teenager assaulted by a neighbor. And your young boy is having a look at that piece of news. What would you do? Take away that paper or ignore the question in the eyes of your child that what actually the news mean? Just one more instance to ponder. One of your close family members is having a life-threatening disease. Would you conceal or would you make your child aware of the reality? Do you have the guts to make your child face the reality of life and death? Or maybe you don't want him to feel the pain. Or are you scared of all the questions that he will ask about these sensitive issues of life? 

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Who is supposed to enlighten the child about these critical and sensitive issues? These are just some of the questions which have been narrated. There are just too many things that need to be explained to the child which as a parent might not have caught our attention. Maybe we have thought of discussing these subjects with our kids when they grow up. It is important to prepare your child for the real world and make him wiser. 

He may be a good artist, player, singer, or student. Maybe he is very intelligent and sensible. Still, he needs your experience and wisdom to take the world in his stride. The writer is not a preacher. These are just a thought process that has come across and shared with all of you. Here each one of you is welcome to come up with your own experience where your child has come up with a certain sensitive issue and the way you handled it.

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Be a kid yourself!

As a parent, we need to set an ideal example of good behavior and good habits. We have to be careful in our words and deeds. The children will automatically follow the path we tread on. However, it should be borne in mind that it is a gradual process of learning. The parents often expect kids to behave like adults. While this is not easy for kids, but it is easier for parents to be kids themselves and make the learning process enjoyable.

A few days back, rains forced my seven-year-old son to stay indoors. Reluctantly, he obeyed and started watching cartoons. It is not an easy task to deviate him from his favorite pastime. Anyways I let him watch cartoons for half an hour and then cajoled him to play some game with me. Both of us had a great time playing indoor games. Instead of behaving like an adult, I enjoyed being a kid myself. Getting naughty and doing things in kids’ way is fun. During this time, I overlooked the mess that was created. My son was surprised to see the change in his mother as there were no scoldings or directions to clear the mess.

At the end of the game, both of us cleared the mess together and happily as well. Being a kid taught me to be happy and cheerful without a specific reason. The incident also taught my growing kid to make most of the available time and also to take good care of his things.

My child taught me to be patient and considerate while making him learn new lessons in life. You can also come forward and share your experiences in the journey of parenting.

No one can teach Parenting

After the initial euphoria and hesitation attached to the childbirth, begins the real job of parenting. Learning to hold the baby and watching the baby crossing every milestone with a smile is a new experience. When she starts recognizing you and her eyes searched for you, those moments can’t be described in words. Each moment with the baby teaches you how to be a good parent.

                                                     


You have seen your parents and definitely imbibed some parenting skills from them. You have also seen how other parents act and react and deal with their children. But still, you can’t learn enough about parenting. Your kids can surely teach you some good lessons on how to raise them well. Amazing isn’t it?

Every child is unique. Though the habits and tantrums of two children may look similar but dealing with each of them may require different parenting styles. Therefore, it may not be in the best interests of the child to treat him or her in the way your neighbor or your friend does.

The psyche and intelligence of every child are different from the other. It is crucial to understand the mindset and personality of the child before responding. And it is when you draw closer to your child while playing, studying, and working or just conversing then you get to know more about his/ her feelings, thoughts, insecurities, dreams and so on.

Develop a close bond with the child and let him speak his mind. Then you would come to know the mistakes you made in understanding him and dealing with him.
Step by step and year after year, you would evolve as a parent. Your journey of parenting would take many turns and many ups and downs. Every moment and phase will teach you to become a good parent.