Saturday, March 21

Creative ways to recycle or reuse common household items


For those with children at home, the number of things that they need is equally proportionate to the things that they can no longer use. For parents, the real challenge is how to effectively maintain a balance between the needs of the kids and avoiding unnecessary expenditures. If you as a parent believe in recycling stuff so that you can use them to cater to newer needs, while raising eco-friendly kids,  you should definitely read ahead.


Advantages of recycling/ reuse of  useless items by kids at home


Kids would learn to create new things out of waste items. 

It is a great way to give wings to their imagination and creativity.

Recycling or repurposing of items will save a couple of bucks too.

Kids will learn the value of things bought for them.

The activity is great to keep kids engaged in a productive way.

The valuable lesson of being eco friendly becomes visible to kids.


Creative ways to recycle or reuse common household items

Creating something new out of old items can be fun. It is more interesting when parents join kids to make recycled products. Here is a list for transforming common household items into recycled products-

From cracked ball to beautiful paperweight

It’s true – the rubber balls which crack and can no longer be played with can be used as a paperweight by using pins to hold pressed sequins or beads on the exterior of the ball. You can also paint the surface of the ball to make it more attractive.






From the broken globe into beautiful light holders:

Many households have a globe for children. Once broken into two halves, it becomes useless but you can use it as light holders to cover the bulbs. It would add to the décor of your room and give it a ‘world-class’ touch!

From metallic bottle caps and broken crayons to beautiful mini diyas: 

You would normally throw out the metallic bottle caps after using the opener to remove them. The same goes for the crayons. Collect them instead. All you need to do is clean them, put a thick thread as a wick in each of them, and pour molten wax by melting the crayons. Your colorful mini diyas/ candles are ready for use during festivals or as home décor.

From old crayons to push up crayons: 

Yes, the pushup crayons can be made at home too instead of buying them from the market where they are relatively more expensive than the normal ones. Melt old or broken crayons and pour them into the plastic cover of the finished glue stick. Let it dry and there, your new push up crayon is ready.

From newspaper to odor absorbent: 

You would have never looked at the newspaper this way but you can try it out for yourself. So, you can either crumble it to keep it inside the shoe for those who have smelly feet or keep a dry stack in the room. It absorbs bad odor.

Moreover, newspapers can be used to make baskets, gift bags, party hats, paper flowers, and ornaments, etc.

From leftover cardboards/ stationery items to the desk organizers

Use leftover cardboard, colorful papers, decorative items, etc., to create a desk organizer. The kids can keep their pencils, crayons, and other small items safely in the same. Here is a link for making desk organizer at home- 
 https://www.instructables.com/id/How-to-Make-DIY-Storage-Organizer-From-Cardboard/

From old plastic bottles to beautiful flower pots and piggy banks


recycled-poduct-piggy-bank
piggy bank image from Pinterest.com


Handmade items look adorable when kids create them out of waste products. Paint a bottle and cut the same into half horizontally. The cut out pots need to be deep enough to contain soil and space for the plant to grow. Now pierce two holes on the two sides to tie a rope. Your pot is ready!

For making piggy banks, hold a wide-mouth plastic bottle horizontally and cut out a small rectangular piece from the center. Now, using colorful papers, sketch pens, watercolors, etc to create face, arms, and feet.







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Monday, March 2

7 Steps to build Confidence of Your Child

What would you do if you find your growing child is losing confidence? Praise her minutest of actions or shower her with gifts that are actually not required?

However, that is not going to help much as the child will depend upon you to feel good about herself or maybe, she will consider herself above others which is not healthy either. So what all can be done that helps her stay confident?
                                 
ways to increase confidence of your child


Easy steps to build confidence in your child


Let her make choices

Avoid taking each and every decision on behalf of your kid. Let her decide what works best for her out of certain options. For example, a 10-year-old can be given a chance to decide what dress to buy for her birthday instead of telling her what will be good for her. That will boost her confidence a lot.

Let her follow her hobbies/ interests


Your child is interested in theatre or sports then let her join classes and help her to continue her passion. Even if it means rescheduling your day! This will develop her self-esteem and inspire her to accomplish what she started.

                                                                       
parenting tips to raise confident kids

Let her have a say in family matters!

On occasions such as Christmas or New Year's party, ask kids to give their inputs concerning room decor, card making, menu, her guest list, etc. This will make them feel important and of course, boost their self-esteem.

In daily routine too, give your teen space to decide on usual matters and cooperate in little things, such as cooking, tidying up the living room, etc

Allow your teen to take risks

Being overprotective does not let the kid take risks and learn from her experiences. Therefore, allow her to take small risks in your presence.

My daughter's friend got stuck in the lift, and from that moment my 8-year-old daughter was scared of going alone in the lift. But, I encouraged her and assured her that I would stand and watch in front of the elevator until she reached safely. That worked for us and now, she confidently takes the elevator alone.

Help her to recover from failures

When she fails to perform as per the expectations of her teachers or peers, her confidence may dip. At that time, your words of encouragement and your opinion about the situation can do a lot to build her confidence again.

Remind her of her past accomplishments, beautiful experiences, and pictures that reflect her positives.

Model healthy self-confidence in front of kids

confident parents have confident kids
Confident parents raise confident kids!


Your own opinion about yourself and your response to various situations shape the mindset of your kids. Therefore, watch out for your actions as you are always monitored by your kids. They are going to follow in your footsteps.

Unconditional love

If your acceptance goes beyond the grades and performance of your child, then come what may, your child will reflect a positive attitude in everything he does. So, love unconditionally even if he fails to perform better or take the wrong decisions.

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Wednesday, January 22

How to develop writing skills in kids?


Good writing skill is something that a child acquires and develops over a period of time. It requires the initiation and full participation of parents. There are some easy ways to encourage kids to write and express their thoughts and ideas beautifully through writing.



Effective ways to develop writing skills in kids


Let the child express his thoughts and feelings freely. Freedom to speak on anything would encourage him to think better and creatively.

Encourage your child to read a variety of books besides textbooks. Reading newspapers, storybooks, poems, etc., would serve as food for thought. Good thoughts convert into better writing ideas.


Nanit - The Baby Monitor That Thinks 

Ask the child to use a dictionary to understand the meanings of tough words. You may also tell him to note down word meanings in his practice notebook.                                                 

Let him write the menu for the day and his shopping list. These little things would improve his writing and spelling.

Encourage him to maintain a colorful diary where he can write his memorable events.

Play word games and word puzzles along with kids to improve their vocabulary.

Chew On This Candy Names game for kids

Ask him to write his thoughts on a specific subject or some abstract thing. You can also join him in this writing activity. You may include his favorite toy or cartoon character and inspire him to weave a story around that toy or character.

Alternatively, you can invite his friends to this activity and let them share and discuss their creativity. It would be an enriching experience for them.


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Gift Kids Book Club Subscription to your child wherein he will receive specially-curated books on a monthly basis as per his age. That is indeed a beautiful way to enhance language skills in your kid before he develops writing skills.

Dedicate a space in the house that is exclusively meant for him where he can concentrate on his writing.

If your child has flair for writing, provide him necessary tools like writing books, puzzle books, colorful pens, and other stationery items. It would motivate him to use them and write.

Create a funny poem with him and ask him to pen down the words.

Help him to finish his writing assignments in a creative and interesting way. Encourage him to prepare a draft of the work and then rectify the grammatical mistakes for him.  His final work would be a lot better.


                   


Writing letters to friends and relatives is a playful exercise for kids. They will enjoy writing a letter and learn a lot.

Making greeting cards for birthdays and anniversaries for family members allows the kids to be creative and expressive. Your active involvement would boost their confidence.

Encourage kids to participate in essay writing competitions. No matter whatever is the result, he is going to gain a lot in the process.

Set an example for your kids. Your habit of writing thoughtfully and creatively would definitely have a positive impact on kids!


    Nurturing writing skills in kids require time, dedication, and patience. Expecting too much, too soon is not going to work. Appreciate them wholeheartedly when they express themselves on paper even if it contains mistakes. Regular practice would develop writing skills in kids.


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Monday, December 30

Impact of Landmark Worldwide on Parents and kids Relationships

Hello everyone,

Hope you are doing well!

This is probably my last blog post of the year 2019 and the one I am most excited about to share with you. It's about our kids and the way we raise our kids.

While thinking of all the ways to make our kids happy, we shower them with immense love, attention, outings, gifts, toys, the best of facilities and a lot more. However, take a moment and consider what could be the best ever gift for your child?


What is the best gift for your child?

                                             
What is the best gift a parent can give to his child?

Is it the fancy, expensive toy on the nearby toy store, a new animated movie your kid has been waiting for, an outing with family, his favorite pizza or bicycle that he wants? Of course, these things are important and add to the quality of life you want to provide to your child. But, what is that one thing that will remain forever with him and will continue to inspire him, fill him with love and happiness? It can't be toys, expensive gifts or accessories that you bought for him. All these have a limited time span of providing value and happiness.

Is it the gift of your time that you shared with him? Yes, it is invaluable indeed and it does create an enduring bond with your children. However, there is one more thing that is more precious than your time.


Saturday, October 19

Self-Growth of Parents - Is it required?



Hello fellow Parents,

I hope you are having a good time while raising kids!


In my previous post, I had shared about the importance of aliveness while parenting and bringing aliveness in relationships in various ways. One major aspect that was part of my previous blog was Self-growth. Is it required or not, while you are totally occupied and absorbed in parenting your kids?

Self-growth or personal growth includes attaining understanding about yourself, your strengths and weakness, and the ways in which you try to achieve your full potential. It also includes- 


-acquiring new skills and habits, 

-letting go of such habits or thought the process that dis-empower you or adversely influence your effectiveness

- embracing a new way of life that invites happiness and abundance for you and people that matter to you.


Parenting versus Self-Growth


Which one would you choose- Parenting or Self-growth or both?

With so much to do while raising kids, is thinking about Self-growth means being selfish? At times, 24 hours seem to be less to take care of kids, manage the household chores, grocery shopping, school visits, home assignments, bill payments, and whatnot. The stay at home parent or working parent, both finds it difficult to breathe and take a break. Amid this, thinking about your own self sounds crazy, isn't it?

In addition, you would agree that parenting and managing home leaves lesser time for personal time or pursuing some interest. That brings in tiredness, dip in self-esteem, disconnect with the friends, separated with real-world developments and may sometimes lead to hopelessness.

While feeling empty within, can we really contribute much to the lives of our kids and family? 

We are no doubt, working hard to make things possible for the family but deep down in heart, there is a certain desire to do something for ourselves. Non-fulfillment of the same causes low self-esteem, depression,  guilt, and sadness, especially when the better half is not even aware of what you are feeling like and you are under the burden of your own created feelings.

That is where SELF GROWTH can change the whole scenario. Your attention to your existence and your development charges you up with hope, energy, and assertiveness. In several ways, when you actually work for your personal growth, it shows up in your presence, your behavior, and definitely in your family environment. Believe me, that inspires your kids too!


The Inspiring Wedding speech of Shashi in the movie- "English Vinglish"


"English Vinglish" is my favorite movie wherein the lead character, Shashi ( actress Sridevi) is dealing with a lot- lack of empathy from husband, no recognition of her contribution, callous attitude of her daughter, struggle to carry forward her hobby of making sweets.

As she is not able to speak the English language, her own family ridicules her and makes fun of her. But with grit, she manages to come out of her situation when she visits the USA for her niece's wedding. Here, she learns the language and delivers wedding speech in English, which is a real inspiration for all.

Sharing with you video of her speech-


Her speech holds inspiration for anyone who feels undervalued and ignored. That is the time to be your own guide and bounce back with confidence. I can relate to her speech in the video as at some point in time, I was surrounded by sadness and no hope for a bright future. I picked myself up started writing and then blogging and now I am leading a team of content writers successfully. This happened when I decided to take a stand for my personal development.

Self-Growth of Parents-  How?


As humans, we have a huge scope of personal development, going beyond our barriers, our old school of thought, and embracing a new approach to life. At a human level, we are prone to procrastination, regrets, hopelessness, lack of confidence, self-doubt, and preconceived notions. That affects our parenting style with limited contribution to the quality of life of our family.

However, once we tread on the path of personal growth, we open up the doors to several new things for ourselves and our kids. So, how to achieve personal growth?

Writing Journal




Writing about what made your day beautiful infuses positivism and happiness. Write about your happy moments and the person you would like to thank for the act of kindness.

Pursue a hobby

Indulge in something that you enjoy like gardening, dance, knitting, etc., that enhances your skill and provides you an opportunity to feel content.

Connect with positive people



Meet the people who lift you up, inspire you, help you when you feel low, and enjoy with you. Stay connected to attract the positive flow of thoughts within you.

Discover yourself

Check what makes you happy, what triggers you, whatever that stops you, or scares you. Observe the reason behind and the impact. Meditate to know more about yourself and to calm your self. You can simply download an app for meditation.

Read a lot


Read motivational books or you may listen to a book if you feel less time in hand for reading. Download AUDIBLE or any similar reading app in your device and listen to great thinkers, authors and motivational speakers to broaden your vision for life.

Likewise, discover other ways to support yourself, upgrade yourself, and witness the transformed human in you, the delightful parent for your kids, and inspiring family members!






Friday, September 13

Bringing Aliveness in Parenting and Relationships



Hi,

In my last post, I shared about feeling aliveness and its impact on you and on the people you care for. Let us take it a level deeper and discover what can make you and me feel alive. How we can include aliveness in our everyday relationships as well as parenting.


Aliveness in parenting is the cause of happy childhood.
Discover the secret to feel aliveness while parenting!

We already know the absence of aliveness brings a certain way of living that is deprived of enthusiasm, spirit, and connection with our present. On the other hand, bringing aliveness can create a whole new world of happiness, hope, high spirits and connection with the present day. So, what all can help us to feel alive and live our life fully?

Here are certain important aspects which I consider bring forth ALIVENESS-

Physical and mental well-being


Workout regularly to keep your mind and body energized.

Regular workouts, walk, running, playing sports or yoga create good health and positive body image. In addition, regular physical workout of any nature enhances stamina, strength, and flexibility. This, in turn, gives you the confidence to perform tasks that you love without hindrance and promotes mental well-being.

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Creativity




Participating in creative fields like art, painting, dramatics, dance, musical instruments, singing, etc., help you to express yourself. The uninhibited self-expression through creativity makes you feel alive and happy.

Love and care


Only happy parents can make their children happy and confident!
Creating Aliveness in everyday routine through love and care.

Being loved and cared for brings that level of satisfaction which cannot be compared to anything else. Such an event arises when you are deeply connected to your parents and other close relationships, communicating, sharing and listening as well. Spending time with loved ones and developing a calm environment at home makes way for aliveness in parenting and relationships.

Read- Magic of a Hug

Self-growth

Being committed to your own growth, enhancing skills and learning new activity that falls outside your comfort zone definitely invites lots of enthusiasm in life. Reading books on varied subjects is another way to contribute to your learning journey. 


Keep on learning as an individual and as parent to inspire kids.

The continuous effort to grow and nurture yourself to witness self-development in yourself is key to feel fulfillment and contentment. The purpose is to keep your brain activated and engaged in different areas of interest. That brings liveliness in everyday routine.

Make peace with past

Yes, that is one important thing as humans we need to incorporate in our minds. Our imagination goes wary. Either caught up in past incidents or fearful of the future, we seldom enjoy what is available right here and now. 
By prompting our mind to focus on the present moment that we are witnessing, we can be available to people around us and experience aliveness. Therefore, let bygones be bygones. Live the moment as it comes.

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Wednesday, August 21

Importance of Creating Aliveness while Parenting

Hello everyone, 

Lately, I have been working on the possibility of creating aliveness in everyday life. In younger times, we engaged in creativity, laugh, tease, play, dance and act in many more ways that created a lively atmosphere in our life. However, as we grow older, responsibility, accountability, tight schedules, etc., etc., take over our once lively persona. 

                                                                    


Is the absence of aliveness bad?

It is though it is not apparent to us. The absence of aliveness deprives us of the element of feeling enthusiasm and hope at times. Emotions of stress, pain, self-doubt, fear, resignation, and indifference take over our everyday existence. That translates into our family atmosphere as well. We exist, work, sleep and perform tasks necessary for survival. However, that is not the reason we are blessed with the life of a human.

Absence of aliveness in our own being manifests in relationships; especially affects our kids. Carrying the emotional baggage of past erodes the aliveness and happiness of today. You cease to exist in present or count your blessings. Again, the same vibes surround your family and kids.

What is ALIVENESS?


                               
Being in the moment is being alive!



Alive means having a life, not dead. Going as per Dictionary. com, here is a clear meaning of what does it mean by 'alive'?


                                           


                               




   So, being alive is not only being in existence, it refers to a state of being active, being exuberant, vibrant and full of energy. That comes when one is fully immersed in the present and available for what is happening right now. Such existence does not have the shadow of past or fear of the future, only being present to the ongoing moment.

Check this quote on ALIVENESS:



What is the Importance of Creating Aliveness while Parenting?

As a human when you feel alive, vibrant and full of energy, it generates in the whole environment. The people surrounding you like your spouse, parents or children receive the same energy and respond with equal zest.

Situation 1- Response coming from your past culminating into anger towards kids.


Imagine a situation, wherein you are exhausted and loaded with official work. You enter your home with this mind frame when you kid hugs you. However, since being not available in present, as your mind is still stressed out, you respond with anger/ frustration. The result is the family atmosphere gets disturbed and your kids drift away from you.

                                           
Situation 2: Creating aliveness while parenting

On the other hand, while feeling alive and being in the present, you can respond to the same situation calmly, thereby retaining pleasantness. Consequently, the kids will connect with you freely and you will be able to enjoy a happy environment after a hectic day.


Here are highlights of Creating Aliveness while Parenting:

1. Being available here and now as a person
2. Past baggage kept aside
3. Responding to the present situation 
            


4. Inspiring the environment to experience present
5. Ensure many happy moments for family
6. Connecting with kids at an elevated level
7. Ensuring the vibrant persona of kids
8. Teaching the kids to be alive at any given moment
9. Happy and optimistic family

We will discover more on Aliveness on next blog post, let me know your views and feedback on what I shared today. Let me know how you felt when you practiced aliveness while raising kids.

Thanks for reading my post, have a good day!

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