Hello everyone,
Hope you are doing well!
This is probably my last blog post of the year 2019 and the one I am most excited about to share with you. It's about our kids and the way we raise our kids.
While thinking of all the ways to make our kids happy, we shower them with immense love, attention, outings, gifts, toys, the best of facilities and a lot more. However, take a moment and consider what could be the best ever gift for your child?
Is it the fancy, expensive toy on the nearby toy store, a new animated movie your kid has been waiting for, an outing with family, his favorite pizza or bicycle that he wants? Of course, these things are important and add to the quality of life you want to provide to your child. But, what is that one thing that will remain forever with him and will continue to inspire him, fill him with love and happiness? It can't be toys, expensive gifts or accessories that you bought for him. All these have a limited time span of providing value and happiness.
Is it the gift of your time that you shared with him? Yes, it is invaluable indeed and it does create an enduring bond with your children. However, there is one more thing that is more precious than your time.
And it is YOU! In fact, your upgraded version is the best ever gift to your child that is possible.
Even if you devote quality time to your child, pay attention to him or her, provide the best of everything, it is the way you connect with him, and your own way of being in his presence, that is going to make all the difference!
Now, what is wrong with the present version of my being or your being? There is nothing wrong really, it is just that we need to see areas where we could have better connected or contributed to our day-to-day life. At times, we give up on certain things or give in to the demands of others where we could have taken a stand. At some other times, we just stop trying or making efforts considering it did not work out in the past. Living life without being happy or content becomes the routine and that shows up in our relationships. Our close relations like parents, siblings and even kids instantly notice when we are truly connected to them and when we are not.
As humans, we have a set of beliefs, thoughts, and awareness of surroundings which help us to connect with the world. Nevertheless, at the same time, this awareness limits us in several ways that are not visible to us. Our own presumptions, thoughts, and feelings along with past experiences constrain us in our relationships with our parents, our children, in our work and overall lifestyle. Therefore, though we put in our heart and soul in whatever we do, these invisible constraints hamper the quality of connection we want to have with others.
The outcome of these constraints surface as arguments, anger, resentment, regret, lack of satisfaction, disconnect with kids and other family members.
Landmark Worldwide focuses on transformative learning wherein the participant becomes aware of the structure of beliefs, thoughts, and feelings within which he or she lives. In addition, he gets present to new possibilities in his life along with access to new distinctions for creating the desired transformation in his life and relationships.
When the above happens, the person is the same but the way he thinks, feels or acts just transforms and the impact is clearly visible to him as well as to people that matter to him. He is able to reinforce his bonding with his parents, kids, siblings, friends, colleagues, partner and wherever he wants to.
So, you can see the whole family unites in a whole new way, that is available after participating in Landmark Forum. Moreover, kids get the best ever gift, their transformed mom or dad who are much closer to them. The missing connection, if any, simply diminishes between the parents and kids.
With my own experience, after completing the Landmark Curriculum, I can say that the way I connect with my family especially kids and the way they relate to me, elevated to a much higher level. And this is a permanent takeaway that I got out of my participation in Landmark. In addition to this, the major benefits of Participation in Landmark Worldwide are-
Moreover, to empower the young people age 8 to 12 years, Landmark Worldwide has a special course called Landmark Forum for Young People. After this program, the young participants create new possibilities for themselves, ready to face challenges confidently, become responsible and connect with parents as well as friends effectively. The kids are able to understand and appreciate parents in a new way.
The impact of Landmark Worldwide on parents and kids relationships is long-lasting, profound and unique.
Related post-
Self Growth of Parents
Hope you are doing well!
This is probably my last blog post of the year 2019 and the one I am most excited about to share with you. It's about our kids and the way we raise our kids.
While thinking of all the ways to make our kids happy, we shower them with immense love, attention, outings, gifts, toys, the best of facilities and a lot more. However, take a moment and consider what could be the best ever gift for your child?
What is the best gift for your child?
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| What is the best gift a parent can give to his child? |
Is it the fancy, expensive toy on the nearby toy store, a new animated movie your kid has been waiting for, an outing with family, his favorite pizza or bicycle that he wants? Of course, these things are important and add to the quality of life you want to provide to your child. But, what is that one thing that will remain forever with him and will continue to inspire him, fill him with love and happiness? It can't be toys, expensive gifts or accessories that you bought for him. All these have a limited time span of providing value and happiness.
Is it the gift of your time that you shared with him? Yes, it is invaluable indeed and it does create an enduring bond with your children. However, there is one more thing that is more precious than your time.
And it is YOU! In fact, your upgraded version is the best ever gift to your child that is possible.
Is there something wrong?
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| How would you rate your connection with your kid and family? |
Even if you devote quality time to your child, pay attention to him or her, provide the best of everything, it is the way you connect with him, and your own way of being in his presence, that is going to make all the difference!
Now, what is wrong with the present version of my being or your being? There is nothing wrong really, it is just that we need to see areas where we could have better connected or contributed to our day-to-day life. At times, we give up on certain things or give in to the demands of others where we could have taken a stand. At some other times, we just stop trying or making efforts considering it did not work out in the past. Living life without being happy or content becomes the routine and that shows up in our relationships. Our close relations like parents, siblings and even kids instantly notice when we are truly connected to them and when we are not.
Why is it so?
As humans, we have a set of beliefs, thoughts, and awareness of surroundings which help us to connect with the world. Nevertheless, at the same time, this awareness limits us in several ways that are not visible to us. Our own presumptions, thoughts, and feelings along with past experiences constrain us in our relationships with our parents, our children, in our work and overall lifestyle. Therefore, though we put in our heart and soul in whatever we do, these invisible constraints hamper the quality of connection we want to have with others.
The outcome of these constraints surface as arguments, anger, resentment, regret, lack of satisfaction, disconnect with kids and other family members.
How Landmark Worldwide support us?
Landmark Worldwide focuses on transformative learning wherein the participant becomes aware of the structure of beliefs, thoughts, and feelings within which he or she lives. In addition, he gets present to new possibilities in his life along with access to new distinctions for creating the desired transformation in his life and relationships.
When the above happens, the person is the same but the way he thinks, feels or acts just transforms and the impact is clearly visible to him as well as to people that matter to him. He is able to reinforce his bonding with his parents, kids, siblings, friends, colleagues, partner and wherever he wants to.
So, you can see the whole family unites in a whole new way, that is available after participating in Landmark Forum. Moreover, kids get the best ever gift, their transformed mom or dad who are much closer to them. The missing connection, if any, simply diminishes between the parents and kids.
With my own experience, after completing the Landmark Curriculum, I can say that the way I connect with my family especially kids and the way they relate to me, elevated to a much higher level. And this is a permanent takeaway that I got out of my participation in Landmark. In addition to this, the major benefits of Participation in Landmark Worldwide are-
- Courage
- Self Expression
- Peace of Mind
- Happiness
- Decision making without self-doubt
- Freedom from resentment and regret
- Ability to fully express your love
Moreover, to empower the young people age 8 to 12 years, Landmark Worldwide has a special course called Landmark Forum for Young People. After this program, the young participants create new possibilities for themselves, ready to face challenges confidently, become responsible and connect with parents as well as friends effectively. The kids are able to understand and appreciate parents in a new way.
The impact of Landmark Worldwide on parents and kids relationships is long-lasting, profound and unique.
Related post-
Self Growth of Parents
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