Love makes the world go round. Whether it is between your parents, your siblings, your children, or in any relation, love is the integral part that keeps the relation strong, positive, and long-lasting. But when was the last time you expressed your love for kids or any other person who means to you a lot?
Parents too expect love from their children. They also want hugs and kisses without any reason from their children. However, one needs to remember that the way your children love you and shower their love on you largely depends upon the factor of the way you love them.
Of course, you love your kids but we are talking about whether you express it or not and how you express it.
Without any fail, you wake up early in the morning, make meals for them, help them to get ready for school, wait for them to come back while finishing your chores, give them attention in the evening and make their bed at night. All the while did you remember to say three magical words that really lighten up the face of your little darlings. Did you say, " I love you" when your darling left for school or when he goes to bed? The words are simple but the impact is magnificent.
Before you expect love, sow love in daily life and in the hearts of your kids. If you are not in the habit of expressing your love to your kids then for once, change this habit. Go ahead and tell them how much you love them and care for them. It is an altogether different and beautiful experience when you shower your love on them and they reciprocate with the same intensity. Love begets love!
Make sure, before you crib for love from your kids, that you have instilled feelings of LOVE in them. They will follow your footsteps in the future so, remember to give them precious, exclusive, and lovely moments that they will cherish throughout their life.
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The equation between Parents and kids
Parents too expect love from their children. They also want hugs and kisses without any reason from their children. However, one needs to remember that the way your children love you and shower their love on you largely depends upon the factor of the way you love them.
Of course, you love your kids but we are talking about whether you express it or not and how you express it.
Before you expect love, sow love in daily life and in the hearts of your kids. If you are not in the habit of expressing your love to your kids then for once, change this habit. Go ahead and tell them how much you love them and care for them. It is an altogether different and beautiful experience when you shower your love on them and they reciprocate with the same intensity. Love begets love!
How to sow seeds of love in your relationship with kids?
- remind kids that they are still loved despite their shortcomings or failures.
- assure them you are always with them come what may.
- understand the significance of love in their life and shower the same without expectation.
- convert kids into happy and confident beings with your attention.
- listen to their stories carefully and patiently.
- avoid comparisons with other kids
- avoid yelling, spanking, or hitting kids
- believe in their dreams, and let them pursue their interests
- create a fun atmosphere with your spouse, family members, and kids
- find time to play, read, watch programs, etc., together with kids
- accept your child and his nature the way he or she is.
- Share your childhood moments to connect with them.
- do not make grades a criterion to love them
Make sure, before you crib for love from your kids, that you have instilled feelings of LOVE in them. They will follow your footsteps in the future so, remember to give them precious, exclusive, and lovely moments that they will cherish throughout their life.
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Love is so important especially for children and I love all your tips you've shared about this topic xx
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