Wednesday, February 19

Magic of a hug

Magic of a hug for parent and child
Nothing compares to a hug from a parent to his kid.



Hugging has magical powers. You don't believe this. If you don't then for once go ahead and give a tight hug to your kid and feel the difference. You cannot express that in words but you will feel what a HUG can do to you and to your child.

Many of us do not give value to hugging. In fact, in some cultures, hugging kids often is considered a way to pamper him/ her and spoil the child in the long run. However, it is not so. On the contrary, hugging has several health benefits. It has magical benefits for both parties.


Hugging is important for child development.


Babies feel emotionally secure and loved when they are close to the body of their parents. Complete child development includes mental growth too. Kids who are deprived of touch and affection are likely to be emotionally weak in comparison to kids who are loved and hugged often.


Hug generates positive vibes.


Hugging kids is important
Hugs from close family members create a positive environment.


 When you hug your child, he is filled with love, laughter, affection, confidence, and positivism. It applies to you too! Hug generates positive emotions in the related brain cells and creates an optimistic atmosphere around the people.   
                                          

A hug means acceptance.

When you hug someone you mean that you are embracing him/ her despite his flaws, mistakes, or weaknesses. Kids need such assurance that though they fail to match your high expectations, they are still loved. When you give a hug to your disobedient son/ daughter, you mean that you may not like his/ her behavior but you still love him/ her like before. Forgive and forget your child's mistake with a hug.


Hug a day keeps the stress away.




Embrace your child often
Embrace your loved ones to feel alive and stress-free.

A hug is a gateway to happiness and optimism. It instantly reduces the stress of children as well as yours. Go ahead and give a nice hug to your children.


Hug has medicinal properties.


 Yes, of course. Give a hug when your child is ill, in pain or sad, and see the positive change in his health. When you connect to him via a hug, he gets charged up, energized, and relaxed.

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Strengthen your bond with your kids through hugging.


If you want to fill the gap between your kids then take a step and embrace them now. Hugging strengthens the bond and makes a relationship more beautiful and worthy.

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Wednesday, February 12

A Gift For Lifetime For Kids

Look at the kids playing in the nearby park or at your home? Wherever there are kids, you can find sounds of giggles, laughter, and chirpy tones in their language. Now, look at yourself. As an adult, you and I are constantly occupied in our tasks or thoughts, trying to figure out how to meet deadlines or pay bills, or outshine others. The vivaciousness and bubbly nature that used to be a part of our personality as kids have gone out of the window. We are machines that execute tasks and responsibilities. For sure our kids would become the same!

Tips for raising happy kids
Raising happy kids!



Can you imagine your kid or any kid without his / her natural effervescence? Can you visualize kids without their celebratory mode on? It is a unique feature found in special species called KIDS. The kids are usually and naturally in celebration mode, not like us hooked to one mode. One parent is running after money and the other busy in house chores or maybe both of them running for something or the other.

With role models like us and the growing competition in life soon kids will become boring, unexciting species like us with agendas and deadlines going on.

Have you any ideas about what can be done to retain their smiles, their high spirits, and their lively attitude towards life?   


                       




Interesting tips to raise happy and cheerful kids



1. Well, let them laugh loudly at silly things. Their giggles, funny sounds, and senseless jokes make them optimistic and hopeful towards life.

2. Even better join them in things that appear to be weird, silly, or rubbish at least sometimes.

3. Let them run, play or trip in the house without bothering about the aftermath like cleaning the house ( for some time). Too much fussing about cleaning is going to erase the layer of liveliness from them.

4. Grades are important but expecting perfection or the highest grades in the class is very stressful. These unrealistic expectations often take away the innocence of a child.

5. Comparisons with other kids are injurious to emotional health. Therefore, avoid making comparisons and accept the unique qualities of your little darling.

6. Love them and they will love you back. This is the best way to make life beautiful. Your love can only help them to fight stress and take hurdles in their stride.

7. Preserve a cool and light atmosphere at home. It helps the kids to be expressive, creative, and jovial. (Avoid behaving like you are sitting on a hot pan!) 




8. Enjoy at least one meal together so that your family bonding stays strong.

9. Demonstrate a happy and emotionally secure disposition yourself. It is your persona that transmits into your kids.

10. Encourage self-discipline in them. This would help them to understand the correlation between efforts and results, and they would learn to be consistent in their endeavors.


 The cheerful and lively nature is the true gift that we parents can give to our children. Other gifts may lose their value but the sparkle on the face of your child is we would like to preserve for a lifetime.

Thursday, February 6

Love begets love

Love makes the world go round. Whether it is between your parents, your siblings, your children, or in any relation, love is the integral part that keeps the relation strong, positive, and long-lasting. But when was the last time you expressed your love for kids or any other person who means to you a lot?

The equation between Parents and kids


Parents too expect love from their children. They also want hugs and kisses without any reason from their children. However, one needs to remember that the way your children love you and shower their love on you largely depends upon the factor of the way you love them.
Of course, you love your kids but we are talking about whether you express it or not and how you express it.

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Without any fail, you wake up early in the morning, make meals for them, help them to get ready for school, wait for them to come back while finishing your chores, give them attention in the evening and make their bed at night. All the while did you remember to say three magical words that really lighten up the face of your little darlings. Did you say, " I love you" when your darling left for school or when he goes to bed? The words are simple but the impact is magnificent.

Before you expect love, sow love in daily life and in the hearts of your kids. If you are not in the habit of expressing your love to your kids then for once, change this habit. Go ahead and tell them how much you love them and care for them. It is an altogether different and beautiful experience when you shower your love on them and they reciprocate with the same intensity. Love begets love!                                                                                       

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How to sow seeds of love in your relationship with kids?


  • remind kids that they are still loved despite their shortcomings or failures.
  • assure them you are always with them come what may.
  • understand the significance of love in their life and shower the same without expectation.
  • convert kids into happy and confident beings with your attention.
  • listen to their stories carefully and patiently.
  • avoid comparisons with other kids
  • avoid yelling, spanking, or hitting kids
  • believe in their dreams, and let them pursue their interests
  • create a fun atmosphere with your spouse, family members, and kids
  • find time to play, read, watch programs, etc., together with kids
  • accept your child and his nature the way he or she is.
  • Share your childhood moments to connect with them.
  • do not make grades a criterion to love them
The above points will go a long way to better your relationship with kids.

Make sure, before you crib for love from your kids, that you have instilled feelings of LOVE in them. They will follow your footsteps in the future so, remember to give them precious, exclusive, and lovely moments that they will cherish throughout their life.


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